Your Teeth & Health

I have court ordered child support and health care.
Dental care is not court ordered, but I’m required to pay half the bills. I have dental insurance for my two children. Should I have to pay the cost of there visits, too? EX never would take the children to the doctor or dentist while they were small. Even if I beg her to. Since the divorce they visit the doctors and dentist monthly. She says she will take every dime I can make and she is doing it. I don’t have enough to live on. What is this man to do? I can’t afford an attorney any longer. Every penny I make goes to pay for something the children need, or she says they need. court said she was to notify me when the children go to the doctors. this doesn’t happen. All I get is the bill afterward. She now has the children seeing a counselor. Been in counseling for a month. Insurance is paying, but my part is more than I can pay. She is trying to cut me out of my children’s life. The counseling is more for her than the children. The insurance just covers the children. I had to buy copies of the records from the counselor to see what is going on. It was filled with lies. divorced for two years. Will she ever let me live?
All she thinks about is cutting me out of my children’s life and will do whatever it takes to stop me from being there Dad. She really believes this can happen.
No money left for lawyers! I’m up to my but with bills, already. This woman doesn’t care about court orders. The court does nothing to her. The court is not on the side of the man.

You need to get the order modified to include that she use your Dental Coverage. Similar to a child support modification, this could be done Pro Se.
http://tinyurl.com/ChildSupportModifications

At the same time, you could file a Motion to Enforce the orders concerning notifying you concerning medical, but you need to begin by giving her an official notification of intent. This is similar to a Notification of Intent as regards denial of visitation. Use the examples for the letters.
http://tinyurl.com/VisitationDenial2

As for dealing with Parental Alienation, send her this
http://tinyurl.com/ChildBillOfRights
http://www.paskids.com/
http://tinyurl.com/AlienatingDad

You should consider preparing for a custody challenge. The more you prepare, the less the attorney cost.
http://tinyurl.com/Custody-Can-A-Father-Win
http://tinyurl.com/JointPhysicalCustody2
http://tinyurl.com/BirdNestCustody2
http://tinyurl.com/CourtWatchers